The Sin of Empathy? Leadership, Sabotage, and Missions With Joe Rigney

When can empathy be a detriment to ministry?

The Sin of Empathy? Leadership, Sabotage, and Missions With Joe Rigney

Can empathy be a bad thing?

This week, Alex and Scott sit down with Joe Rigney, Fellow of Theology at New Saint Andrew’s College and pastor, as they explore the challenges of Christian leadership, ministry, and missions, and the dangers of emotional sabotage and untethered empathy. Rigney explains that in times of turmoil, leaders must maintain mission clarity and resist being derailed by reactive or manipulative pressures within their organizations.

Joe Rigney discusses that rather than being an unqualified good, empathy can be wielded as emotional blackmail, steering ministries away from their God-given purposes. They also focus on principles of mobilization and missions. Rigney stresses that appeals to missions should be rooted not in guilt but in gratitude, joy, and faith in God’s future grace.

Key Topics

  • The concept of mission drift and how institutions get derailed in anxious times
  • Difference between biblical compassion and untethered empathy
  • The dangers of empathy as emotional blackmail and manipulation
  • How appeals to missions should be based on truth and joy, not guilt
  • Building sober-minded, resilient leaders who can withstand cultural and emotional pressures

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Alex Kocman & Scott Dunford

Alex Kocman is the Director of Communications and Engagement for ABWE. He serves as general editor for Message Magazine and co-hosts The Missions Podcast. After earning his M.A. in Communication and B.S. in Biblical Studies, he served as an online apologetics instructor with Liberty University and a youth pastor in Pennsylvania, where he now resides with his wife and four children. Read his blog or follow him on X.

Scott Dunford is the pastor of Western Hills Church in San Mateo, Calif. Previously, Scott served as Vice President of Mobilization and Communications for ABWE and as a missionary in East Asia. Scott graduated from Northland International University (B.A. in Pastoral Studies), earned his M.A. in biblical studies from Central Baptist Theological Seminary, his M.B.A. from Cornerstone University, and is currently enrolled in Midwestern Baptist Theological Seminary’s D.Min. program with an emphasis on missions.


Ministry Focuses:

Leadership Development

Country:

United States